Vanessa and Xander Marin | Sex Therapist
@vanessaandxanderHi! We’re Vanessa and Xander! We specialize in helping people stop feel so embarrassed about sex, and start having way more fun in the bedroom. We’ve been affectionately nicknamed “that sex couple” by our followers for our frank discussions of the modern challenges faced by modern couples. Vanessa is a licensed psychotherapist. She studied human sexuality at Brown University, has written for The New York Times, Allure, and Lifehacker, and has been featured thousands of times by publications like O, The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, Refinery29, New York Magazine, Rolling Stone, Buzzfeed, and many more. And Xander is a regular dude who left a cushy career in Tech once he realized it was more fun to talk about sex with his wife all day. Together, we have the unique ability to make you laugh while giving you the courage to talk about sex and relationships in ways you never have before! Get our weekly emails by signing up at: https://vmtherapy.com/subscribe/
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Overview
- Subscribers
- 191KTop 32%
- Avg views
- 9.3KTop 59%
- Median views
- 7.2KTop 75%
- View-through
- 4%Top 72%
- Engagement rate
- 2.0%Top 85%
- Past sponsors
- 9+





- Last published
- 22d ago
- Est. Rate $
- $420-650by Scout

- Audience Score
- 35by Scout

- Sponsor Score
- 78by Scout

Videos

Cozy Earth51:07E277: How to Take Your Orgasm to the Next Level with the Four Orgasm Amplifiers
12.3K views · 8d ago
Quince48:46E276: How do you even turn your partner on?
13.2K views · 15d ago
Cozy Earth49:13E275: Reasonable or Ridiculous? Sex Quotas, Oral Every Time, and Dirty Talk Dealbreakers
10.5K views · 22d ago
Cure Hydration1:05:07E274: Is it Normal to Not Orgasm During Sex? We Got Attacked for Talking About This
10K views · 29d ago
Cozy Earth59:00E273: How to Try New Sex Positions Without Killing the Mood
12.4K views · 1mo ago
Quince48:43E271: The Real Reason You Can't "Let Go" in Bed
6.4K views · 1mo ago
Cure Hydration56:54E266: Ask a Sex Therapist (Part 3) Sex Pillows, Squirting, and Standing-Up Sex
9.7K views · 2mo ago
RRemi Club1:00:19E264: What Women Really Think About... Part 3
7.2K views · 3mo ago
Past Sponsors
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