Vanessa and Xander Marin | Sex Therapist
@vanessaandxanderHi! We’re Vanessa and Xander! We specialize in helping people stop feel so embarrassed about sex, and start having way more fun in the bedroom. We’ve been affectionately nicknamed “that sex couple” by our followers for our frank discussions of the modern challenges faced by modern couples. Vanessa is a licensed psychotherapist. She studied human sexuality at Brown University, has written for The New York Times, Allure, and Lifehacker, and has been featured thousands of times by publications like O, The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, Refinery29, New York Magazine, Rolling Stone, Buzzfeed, and many more. And Xander is a regular dude who left a cushy career in Tech once he realized it was more fun to talk about sex with his wife all day. Together, we have the unique ability to make you laugh while giving you the courage to talk about sex and relationships in ways you never have before! Get our weekly emails by signing up at: https://vmtherapy.com/subscribe/
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- 194KTop 32%
- Median Views
- 7.2K
- Engagement Rate
- 1.7%
- Sponsor Frequency
- 71%+



- Uploads / Month
- 9.1Last 5d ago
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Videos
- Cozy Earth53:27E283: Reverse Cowgirl: Tips, Tricks, and Techniques for Maximum Pleasure13.4K views · 12d ago
- Quince53:28E282: Is This Normal? He Made AI Sex Videos of Us, and I Have Questions10.4K views · 19d ago
- Quince59:12E281: Am I the Asshole? Kissing After Oral, Weight Gain, and Bad Sex7.3K views · 26d ago
- Quince46:25E280: The Initiation Mistakes You Don’t Even Realize You’re Making5.1K views · 1mo ago
- Quince1:01:00E279: Ask a Sex Therapist: Kink Icks, Spicy Pics, and Vanilla Sex7.6K views · 1mo ago
- Cure Hydration51:21E278: How to Get Out of a Relationship Rut: Your 4-Week Plan5.2K views · 1mo ago
- Cozy Earth51:07E277: How to Take Your Orgasm to the Next Level with the Four Orgasm Amplifiers12.3K views · 1mo ago
- Quince48:46E276: How do you even turn your partner on?13.2K views · 2mo ago
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